evetything is different, everything is better
everything is different, everything is better… a lot of time has gone by since mom died. i’m a changed person and i continue to change daily. this has been a really difficult couple of years. a lot of old wounds have been opened up and that’s always painful. but i’m healing. i’m meditating. i’m living my life and i’m actually happy when i wake up in the morning. for decades i woke up angry at being alive. i’m alive and loving life. cherish every moment. everything is temporary. my intersex life is no longer a secret and that has given me reason to not just live but to fight for intersex rights and to raise awareness about people born like me, with ambiguous genitals, the doctors could not tell my mom and dad if i was a boy or a girl. i am a pseudohermaphrodite, born in 1960. i’ve been silent for decades about being Intersex. No more silence. No more shame. No more secrets. No more lies.



